Wondering how to propose to your bridesmaids? Asking your bridesmaids or maid of honor that one big question is almost as exciting as getting engaged! And let’s be honest - coming up with fun bridesmaid proposal ideas is half the fun! Whether you gather your girls together for a fun gift-giving party or deliver them individually, the element of surprise is what really makes the whole experience so memorable. So to help you out, we’ve come up with a list of some of our favorite creative ways to ask your bridesmaids that will get them yelling “yes!” at the top of their lungs!
31 Bridesmaid Proposal Ideas Your Girls Will Love
A Scratch-Off Card
Give your girls a scratch-off card that is seriously too cute for words! You can even write a personal message for each of your soon-to-be 'maids to reveal.
Cupcake Jars
Let's be real - who doesn't love a sweet treat every now and then? These cupcakes in a jar are not only delicious, but the perfect proposal idea!
Bridesmaid Proposal Box
Instead of choosing just one item, why not give your bridesmaids a whole goodie box of gifts? Adorned in white and gold, these classy, elegant boxes are sure to please your girls. Who can say no to these?
A "Will You Be My Bridesmaid?" Makeup Bag
The creativity of Etsy people continues to amaze me! This simple, customizable makeup bag is the perfect way to ask all of your girls, and they can even use it on the big day!
A Simply Beautiful Proposal Card
Fun cards are an easy way to propose! Etsy offers a wide variety of card options--from simple to funny, Etsy has serves a wide variety of tastes! Check out one of my personal favorites!
Parisian Pom Pom Necklaces
What girl wouldn't want a gift that comes from the city of love (Paris!)? These sweet and simple pom pom necklaces are a fun present that your future 'maids will adore!
Customizable Shot Glasses
How fun would it be to get your girls together, pour a round of drinks, and let them find the personalized message written on the side of these shot glasses? One of the best ways to find your bridal party, it sure sounds like a party to me!
Bridesmaid Proposal Necklace
This simple and sweet initial necklace is sure to be a winner among your bridesmaids. Something your 'maids can wear in your wedding, and long after the big day, this necklace is the perfect bridesmaid gift!
Funny Bridesmaid Proposal Card
It may not be the most sentimental of cards, but this design will definitely make your girls laugh! Besides, your need for them to help you pee is totally legit.
Bridesmaid Proposal Mug
Honestly, when I found this coffee cup on Etsy I couldn't help but think that I would love to give this gift to my future bridesmaids! The floral print is adorable, and I think we can all admit that coffee cups are one of the most functional gifts.
"Will You Be My Bridesmaid?" Proposal Cookies
We're drooling at the sight of these fancy bridesmaid cookies. And no one can refuse a yummy dessert right?
Funny Proposal Card
I love this proposal card because it's sweet and a little sassy. Straight to the point and super cute, this is sure to get a laugh out of your bridesmaids.
Personalized Champagne Glasses
These personalized champagne glasses are great because you can choose them to match your wedding colors. After you surprise your girls, you and your 'maids can use the glasses to celebrate accordingly! (This gift will also make for super cute bride/bridesmaid "getting ready" pictures on the day of the wedding!)
Rustic Proposal Bag
Propose to your bridal party with this charming muslin bag that's perfectly rustic chic! Personalize their bag by adding in a fun little bonus like nail polish, candies, coffee, or whatever you think they might enjoy!
Bridesmaid Proposal Pillow
This sweet and sentimental pillow is such a creative bridesmaid proposal idea. This is a super cute and unique gift for your BFF turned bridesmaid who will always have an adorable reminder of how much you care about her!
Fragrant Bath Bomb
This punny bath bomb is not only super cute but is a gift your bridesmaids will definitely love and use!
Proposal Koozie
A koozie is something that can be used time and time again so by asking with something so practical means they'll constantly remember the special day they were invited to take part in your wedding! Cute, cheap, and easy, you can't go wrong with a koozie.
Fun Puzzle
You're friends will be filled with curiosity while they're attempting to figure out the hidden message on this pretty, custom jigsaw puzzle. Imagine their amazement once they finally put it together!

Funny Bottle of Booze
Place one of these glamorous labels onto a tasty bottle of wine and not only does it become a creative way to ask your bridesmaids, but it's a great way to celebrate together once they've said "yes!"

Simple, Cute Necklace
Dainty necklaces are totally trending so why not gift your girls with a chic, circular necklace that they can wear over and over again? We'd definitely be excited if we were given something this cute!
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Bridesmaid Proposal Confetti Poppers
Pop the question with these push-up confetti poppers that will have you and your friends laughing and cheering "hell yeah!" out of excitement. Not to mention, they just look like a ton of fun!
Cute Proposal Candle
With cute packaging and a fun surprise inside, this candle is a great gift for your future bridesmaids! Every time they use the candle, they are sure to think of you. And even better: it's eco-friendly!
Funny Proposal Card
"Turns Out I Like Him More Than I Originally Planned" is funny but also acknowledges that your bridesmaids have been with you throughout you and your fiancée's relationship.
Cork With a Secret Message
Especially perfect for those passionate wine lovers (you know who you are!), this simple cork unravels an unsuspecting message for your friends to discover.
Customizable Cosmetic Bags
These super cute (and functional) cosmetic bags are the perfect 'will you be my bridesmaid' gift ideas. Open up the bag to see the message "will you be my bridesmaid?" for something that's a little more subtle but will be sure to put a smile on their faces whenever they use it! You can even fill the bag with goodies for a fun surprise! Check out Penny & Pine's bridal skincare line! I LOVE their transformation oil, and I know your girls would, too! Jump start your girls' glowing skincare routine with a cute bag and skincare combo!
Bridesmaid Goodie Box
Your future bridesmaids are sure to celebrate when they open this goodie box! From the confetti to the little bottle of champagne to the little picture frame, everything about this gift just screams "cute".
Personalized Card
This personalized 'be my bridesmaid' proposal card is just too precious. Simple but beautiful, your future 'maids will love this gift and keep it for years to come! Best yet-you can customize the bridal and bridesmaid dresses to match your aesthetic and color! (If you already have an idea of what you want that is.)
Spa Day Bridesmaid Box
Let's face it: being a bridesmaid can be stressful. Your girls will have a lot ahead of them if they say yes, from helping with the wedding planning to dress try on's to hair appointments to the bachelorette party! Propose to your bridesmaids with a sentimental gift that will help keep them stress-free and relaxed throughout the entire bridesmaid process.

Hair Ties
I love these hair ties because they're simple, inexpensive, and something your future 'maids will be able to use for a long time. And who doesn't love cute hair ties?
Engraved Proposal Box
These engraved bridesmaid proposal boxes are perfect. Your 'maids will be able to safely store all of their bridesmaid jewelry before the big day, and look how cute those little flasks are!
Mini Piñata
It's not a party unless there's a confetti-filled piñata! Your girls will love the excitement that this childhood toy brings as they pull on the string to reveal the exciting surprise inside!

How would you ask your bridesmaids?
We're super inspired by all these fun ideas and it's hard for us to even pick a favorite. Leave a comment below and tell us which 'will you be my bridesmaid?' gift was your personal fave! Have an idea of your own? Leave that in the comments as well! And once you've checked out all of these fun ideas, head on over and start browsing our collection of bridesmaid dresses for some more wedding inspiration you'll adore!






























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